As a powerful successful independent woman, who has achieved so much in every other area of life, you’re probably wondering why love is still missing in your life.

You’ve been on countless dates, or been in relationships that have left you feeling frustrated and drained. You are tired of going through the same routine on every date, not finding the high quality partner who really lights up your heart and feels right for you.

You want a deep passionate, intimate love life, and when you tap into the unique power of being a woman you can truly create the extraordinary love you’re meant to have.

I understand you, I feel you, I’ve had the same struggles as you, and dated many different types, from the emotionally detached and unavailable, who ‘can’t commit to you right now’ and want to keep things casual and undefined and are always ‘going through something’ so you are constantly trying new ways to make them love you.

Have you experienced the emotional abuser, who wants to possess and control you, who at first seems really sweet, but becomes obsessed with you, and wants to know every detail about you, your friends, your whereabouts, but doesn’t like it if you  do anything solo and then begins to criticise every aspect of you and your life.

So you try the nice boring one, who is pleasant, agreeable, and always at your beck and call, who lets you make all the decisions, and never takes any initiative or responsibility in the relationship but needs constant reassurance.  Your emotions are too much to cope with, you soon see the immaturity and passive aggressiveness when you are not giving your constant approval.

Sometimes through bad experiences we create a negative mindset and beliefs that stay trapped in our bodies, and last a very long time. This causes us to habitually attract the wrong person you start to lose faith, your body and mind become numb, disconnected and the walls thicken around your heart.

Dating can really bring up so many fears and worries. It can be really intense and scary. But choosing the path of self-love while you’re dating will allow you to gently heal those wounds with love.

There is so much conditioning in the world that tells you that you need to be in a relationship to feel worthy. But there is even more power within a woman who chooses to love herself in spite of all of that.